Grow Through What You Go Through

A journey of healing, self-discovery, and inner transformation—guided through powerful metaphors and lived truth.

About me

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Harper DePagter is also the author of her children’s book “I’m a New Mom.” She published her children’s book in 2017 under her deadname before she came out as transgender in 2022. An educator, small business owner of HARPS The Handy Mom, and proud LGBTQIA+ community member. Harper speaks as a leader for transgender advocacy and rights. She is a proud Mother of two children.

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My Book

ABOUT THE BOOK

In the opening chapters of this metaphor-rich book, the author frames the mind as a garden—alive, unpredictable, and shaped by how we choose to tend it. Ideas appear as seeds, memories as soil, and the process of pruning mirrors the difficult work of letting go. Even early on, the book makes clear that growth is not a neat upward path but a slow, organic unfolding.One of the most striking themes is the role of darkness. Rather than treating it as something to fear, the author presents darkness as a protective veil, a place where hidden truths and tender parts of the self can rest until they’re ready for light. It’s a fresh and compassionate take on the parts of ourselves we often avoid.Though I’ve only read five chapters, the book already stands out for its lyrical writing and psychological insight. It invites readers to see their inner world not as something to control, but as something to cultivate—with patience, honesty, and respect for its seasons.

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